CMR Canada  Employee and Family Assistance Programs 
Serving Canadians for 21 Years
 

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CMR Canada - Employee and Family Assistance Programs
Head Office:  Suite 600, Bow Valley Square 4, 250 - 6 Avenue SW, Calgary, Alberta   T2P3H7
Telephone (403) 263-2200  Fax (403) 256-8291  E-mail:  cmr@cmrcanada.ca

March 2000

Note: This article presents only one perspective on a body of information on the subject and is not intended to be definitive. CMR Canada recommends you seek additional perspectives on the subject.

 

Men and Depression: It's not just a woman's problem

(WebMD) -- For years, depression was seen as a woman's issue. And given that women visit psychiatrists and counsellors more often than men do, and that women seem to have an easier time expressing their emotions, it's understandable why mental health professionals were convinced that more women suffered from depression than men.

Yet men commit suicide four time more often than women do. More men than women abuse drugs and alcohol and initiate violence. Clearly, men aren't less likely than women to become depressed; they're just less likely to recognize and seek help for depression, and they have different ways of dealing with it.

 Signs of Depression

 Loss of energy
Significant weight loss or gain
Feelings of sadness or guilt
Inability to concentrate or sleep
Sleeping more than usual
Drinking alcohol more than usual
Distancing self from family and friends

How men are taught to cope with emotional pain

Generally, men are raised to be in control, independent, strong and rational. We are trained to see life as a constant battle for what we consider our just rewards -- a good job, a nice house and car, a fit body. Our machinelike mentality leaves little room for difficult emotions like confusion or sadness. It's considered unmanly to even admit these feelings, which we believe will slow us down or, even worse, break us down. Rise above your hurts and pains, we are told.

The physical cost of ignoring our mental health

Unfortunately, what happens to a lot of us in trying to "rise above" the pain is we turn to behaviours that numb the pain -- drugs, alcohol, affairs, gambling. These devices exact a toll on our bodies, bringing down our physical health with our mental health.

Depression affects our bodies. In a recent study of Johns Hopkins medical students, the depressed men were twice as likely as the non depressed men to develop coronary artery disease or have a sudden cardiac death. The increased risk lasted for up to 10 years after the onset of their depression.

Learning to deal with emotions

If you think you're depressed, you should seek professional help. Whether or not you seek treatment, there are things you can do right now to help yourself.

bulletUnderstand what it really means to be depressed. It doesn't mean you've failed. It simply means something isn't working in your life and you need to discover what that is. The depression may be a signal that you need to address unresolved issues or that you are not happy pursuing goals you once thought were important.
bulletLet go of preconceived notions of "being a man." Men are taught to live by a certain code of conduct, one that is rigid and emotionally restrictive. If we're not athletic, successful in business or wealthy, we may feel we don't measure up. We need to expand our definition of what it means to be a successful man: being a good friend, a loving husband, an involved father. It may take time to let go of long-standing goals (which were probably set in adolescence), but one you do, you can work toward new ones that will truly make you happy.
bulletTarget unhealthy activities and behaviours. A lot o men pick up addictions and destructive behaviours on the road to depression. You may need to consult a physician or therapist to successfully quit drinking or smoking, and it always help to have support, whether it's from your family, friends or a support group.
bulletFind ways to nurture others. By giving to others, we often rediscover our own self-worth and self-esteem. I've discovered in my experience as a men's counsellor that we can feel just as productive tending a garden or volunteering in a community as we would at a 40-hour-a-week-job.
Reference: WebMD
Edited by: CMR Canada

SAD - a link to seasonal depression

Description

Seasonal affective disorder (SAD) is a mood disorder characterized by periods of depression that begin in the fall and subside in the spring. It results from the decrease in sunlight during the shorter days. The threshold of light-reduction that elicits depression varies among individuals.

The depressive episodes are usually mild to moderate but can be severe.

Risk

Thousands of Canadians experience SAD. Many more have a subclinical response - "winter blues"). Seventy-five percent to eighty percent of SAD sufferers are women who typically begin experiencing the disorder in their 30s. SAD has also been observed in children.

Seasonal affective disorder occurs more frequently in northern regions because of the shorter winter days.

Symptoms

The key factor in diagnosing SAD is is seasonal pattern: Symptoms fade with the arrival of spring and return in the the fall. Another characteristic of the illness is a craving for foods rich in carbohydrates.

Symptoms include lethargy or fatigue, weight gain, withdrawal from relationships, decreased sexual appetite, inability to concentrate or focus, irritability, anxiety and occasionally despair.

Women frequently report worsening of premenstrual symptoms.

Treatment

The primary treatment for SAD is light therapy. Other treatments, such as antidepressant medication, stress management, exercise and psychotherapy, may be useful as well.

Light therapy is exposure to intense levels of light under controlled conditions. The typical light therapy system consists of a set of fluorescent bulbs in a box with a diffusing screen. The box is placed on a table, and the person with SAD sits close to the light box, with lights on and eyes open. However, looking at the lights in not recommended; rather, people should engage in activities such as reading or eating meals.

Spending time outdoors during the day or rearranging the home and workplace to admit more sunlight may help alleviate mild symptoms.

Prevention

To lessen the symptoms of SAD:

bullettry to develop a positive attitude about the fall and winter
bulletplan enjoyable activities for fall and winter
bulletmaximize the time spent in bright light, both indoors and outdoors
bulletstay physically active or initiate physical activity before the onset of symptoms
bulleteat a well-balanced diet.
Reference: WebMD
Edited by: CMR Canada


Note: This article presents only one perspective on a body of information on the subject and is not intended to be definitive. CMR Canada recommends you seek additional perspectives on the subject.

 

For more information on this and other subjects go to Interventions Archive.  The EFAP assists you and your family resolve personal problems and maintain healthy and productive lives. 

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PROFILE

CMR Canada, a national EFAP management firm founded in Alberta in 1990, delivers programs and services that enhance the health and performance capability of individuals and organizations.  The firm delivers services to individuals plus their families in organizations located throughout Alberta - Municipal Governments, Hospitals, Unions,  Universities, and Corporations and the General Public.

Interventions, the EFAP Journal of CMR Canada, is available to clients without cost.  

CMR's organization is simple, efficient, and highly effective leaving the majority of resources, financial and human, to provide service to clients and their families. The firm has extensive experience in designing, implementing, resourcing, evaluating, and managing  Assistance Programs.

CMR has an unlimited supply of qualified professionals to engage as needed. Professionals are partnered or on contract to CMR. Included are Psychologists, Registered Social Workers, Family Therapists, Crisis Counsellors,  Career Counsellors, and Certified Human Resource Professionals.

Working principles:  keep the business small; deliver extraordinary personal service; keep the costs low.  This highly efficient and effective business model allows CMR to deliver high quality programs and services at lower cost with increased accountability - and select the most experienced and capable professionals. 

To request more information or a counsellor, click on Request for Service. 

CMR Canada - Employee and Family Assistance Programs

Head Office
Suite 3500, Bow Valley Square 2
205 - 5 Avenue SW
Calgary, Alberta T2P2V7
Telephone (403)263-2200 in Calgary, or
1-800-567-9953 from elsewhere
Fax (403)256-8291
E-Mail:  CMR Canada
Alberta Locations

Athabasca,  Barrhead, Calgary,  Camrose,  Drayton Valley,  Edmonton,  Edson,  Fort McMurray,  High Prairie,  Hinton,  Jasper,  Grande Prairie,  Lac La Biche,  Lethbridge,  Lloydminster, Medicine Hat,  Peace River, Pincher Creek,  Red Deer,  St. Paul , Wainwright